“想看什么就去看，想做什么就去做，想去哪里就去；凡事心有所想，必定身体力行。”
----大前研一
烦恼的不是有什么事情无法去做，而是根本没什么想做的事情。
这个可不是无欲无求的正统境界。
上午和小拉BLABLA聊了一番后又想到了一些事情。
之所以不在乎还是因为不够重视，不够重视的原因又来自自我保护意识过强安全感不足。
对照之前的聊天，很多不同的表现归结起来是同一个问题，来源于以往的经历种种。
有时候虽然在说的是别人的事情，但自己也会有共鸣，那些突如其来的感慨或是愤怒都不是没有原因的。
“在所有那些古怪的虚荣、自负、要求和敌意后面，有一个正在受苦的人。”
这首歌写于"9.11"事件后，在天王巨星迈克尔·杰克逊的带动下，美国一些著名歌手共同录制了一首歌曲，名为"我还能为你做什么"What More Can I Give，由迈克尔作词作曲。
他们希望通过歌曲的销售能为在恐怖袭击事件中失去亲人的家庭筹款5000万美元。这首歌由MJ领衔，席林迪昂，瑞奇马丁，蓝调美声女子团体"天命真女"Destiny's Child，著名歌手玛丽娅·凯丽Mariah Carey，著名歌手美雅Mya，偶像组合"后街男孩"Back street Boys和"超级男孩"N'Sync等众多明星参加录制。
众星还举行了一场名为United We Stand: What More Can I Give的演唱会，于2001年10月21日在首都华盛顿RFK体育馆举行。
Celine: How many people will have to die before we will take a stand?
Billy Gillman: How many children will have to cry, before we do all we can?
Reba McEntire: If sending your love is all you can give
Nick Carter: To help one live
Ricky Martin: How many times can we turn our headsAnd pretend we cannot see
Mariah: Healing the wounds of our broken earthWe are one global familyJust sending your prayers
Beyonce: Is something you'll feelHelping one heal
Chorus:MJ: What have I got that I can give?
All: (What have I got that I can give? (Tell me)
MJ: What have I got that I can give?
Justin: (Yeah, yeah, uh, uh)
All: To love and to teach youTo hold and to need youWhat more can I give?
Now let's rather lay down our fears and reach out and make a pact
Gloria Estefan: Show him the love that is in our hearts let us bring salvation back
Luther Vandross: Just sending your love has the power to heal
Usher: So let's all giveChorus:
All: What have I got that I can give?
Luther Vandross: (Is not allowed to give just a little bit)
All: What have I got that I can give?
Luther Vandross: (Everyone should be a part of it)
All: To love and to teach youTo hold and to need youWhat more can I give?
MJ: Say the wordsI'll lay me down for you
Celine: Just call my nameI am your friend
MJ: See, then why do they keep teaching usSuch hate and cruelty?We should give over and over again
All: What have I got that I can give?
MJ: (We should give over and over again!)
All: What have I got that I can give?
MJ: (Oh my god, oh my god)
Boyz II Men: (Oh my Lord)
All: See, to love and to teach youTo hold and to need youWhat more can I give?
All: What have I got that I can give?
Mariah: Aahh...
All: What have I got that I can give?
MJ: (give you, give to you)
All: See, to love and to teach youTo hold and to need youWhat more can I give?
All: What have I got that I can give?
Celine: (What More Can I give?)
All:What have I got that I can give?
MJ: (I wanna give to you, give it to you)
All: See, to love and to teach youTo hold and to need youWhat more can I give
MJ: (they think I'm crazy but I'm not!)
2nd Chorus:
All: What have I got that I can give?
MJ: (To give it to you)
Mariah: Aahh..
MJ: (we wanna give to you!)
All: What have I got that I can give?
To hold and conceal you(Oh, no, yeah, yeah, yeah)
All: To love and to heal youWhat more can I give?(Give me, give me one time more)What have I got that I can give?
Gloria Estefan: (What I got, what have I got) (Say your prayers)What have I got that I can give?(Show the world how much you really care)To love and to teach you
Celine: (To love you, teach you)To hold and to need you
Celine: (To hold you, to need you)(What more?)What more can I give?
All: What have I got that I can give?
3LW: (What can I give? Tell me what can I give you)
All: What have I got that I can give?
To hold and conceal youTo love and to heal youWhat more can I give?
真的无所谓什么天王巨星不天王巨星，他一直致力于这些事情。
在评论是非之前不如看看是不是其他人做的也像他一样多？
从女生那边看到的：
萨提尔女士说人有三度诞生，第一度诞生是指发生于精卵结合之际；第二度诞生即我们实际上自子宫出生，第三度诞生则是在我们成为自己的决定形成之际。前二度不是我们可以掌握决定的，而第三度诞生，发生在当我们可以驾驭自己的生命，驾驭我们独特性发展的过程，并成为一个负责任的人。
每个人都能够发展到第二度诞生，但只有少数人可以达到第三度诞生，如果试图让其它的人或事物来掌控我们的第三度诞生，所付出的代价是极其高的，例如生理上和心理上的疾病、药物依赖、缺乏能力、犯罪、战争……..，这份清单是长长一大串的，这样的代价，绝非不是你我愿意承担。就从现在开始，无论你的年龄，无论任何时空背景，试图让自己成为对自己及对他人负责任的人，驾驭自己的生命，以自己的脚跟踏实的站稳之际，有人称之为「成熟」，愿你我都在这条路上努力，共勉之。
不要不情愿地劳作，不要不尊重公共利益，不要不加以适当的考虑，不要分心，不要虚有学问的外表而丧失自己的思想，也不要成为喋喋不休或忙忙碌碌的人。而且，让你心中的神成为一个保护者，一个有生命的存在的保护者，一个介入政治的成熟的男子的保护者，一个罗马人，一个统治者的保护者。这个统治者像一个等待从生活中召唤他的信号的人一样接受了自己的职位，无需誓约也无需别人的证言。同时也欢乐吧，不寻求外在的帮助也不要别人给的安宁。这样，一个人就必然笔直的站立，而不是让别人扶着直立。
